Saying goodbye to Stepdad Dave, my third father, and musings on life and death and choosing happiness. (An explanation of where I’ve been all this time.)
First Cup of Coffee – March 18, 2024
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Author: Jeffe Kennedy
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First Cup of Coffee – March 4, 2024
//How writing a novel is like building a road brick by brick, and how some days you’re nose in the mortar and other days you lift your head to look. Also thoughts on revision, the 3-Act structure, story logic, and knowing whether you have brain juice or not.
Trope-tastic – Love ‘Em and Loathe ‘Em
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This week at the SFF Seven. we’re asking each other which tropes you love to write and which do you loathe?
The tropes I love are pretty easy to identify for anyone who’s read more than one of my books. My favorites are:
- Enemies to Lovers
- Marriage of Convenience/Political Marriage/Marriage of State
- Forced Proximity
- He Falls First
- Learning to Use magic/special abilities/wrestling own power
As for the tropes I loathe? Loathe is a strong word. I’m not sure I loathe any tropes. Ones I’m less fond of are:
- Second chance (I just don’t believe that whatever broke them up the first time won’t break them up again)
- Bully Romance (no no no – toxicity and abuse isn’t romantic to me)
- Fated Mates (hard to make this one work)
- Faux Medieval Fantasy Worlds (Enough already – and besides medieval times were never like that)
- Chosen One (yawn)
The ones I truly dislike are the damaging ones, like:
- Woman in the Refrigerator (women are people, not plot devices)
- Clumsy Heroine (it’s not endearing to me)
- Racist Cliches (enough said)
- Bury Your Gays (see Woman in the Refrigerator)
- Having Kids as the Solution to Happiness (Spoiler: having kids is *hard* – they don’t solve your problems or give your life the meaning it lacked)
First Cup of Coffee – March 1, 2024
//On busy brain work, how I’m not yet done with the book, nice words from my editor on gatekeeping and letting people in, even nicer words from Maria Vale on NEVER THE ROSES, and the loneliness of caregiving
First Cup of Coffee – February 26, 2024
//Sharing the OFFICIALLY OFFICIAL super exciting news today on NEVER THE ROSES, the book I sold to Tor. I’m explaining the Publisher’s Marketplace lingo, how foreign sales work, and why creatives can’t be thick-skinned.
First Cup of Coffee – February 23, 2024
//Some big news on the official title of the book that was Oneira and a release date! Also, a thing I bought because of Taylor Swift that has Changed My Life, and more on coping as a creative when people hate you/your work.
First Cup of Coffee – February 19, 2024
//My Friday Freakout and how even experienced authors have emotional crises about their books, along with insight on shaken baby syndrome in books, how interruptions cause issues, and Longshot: an underrated movie.
Overthinking Your Writing? Be Like Jackson
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Our topic at the SFF Seven this week is: How do you stop overthinking your writing? The accompanying photo is of Jackson, who makes a practice of overthinking absolutely nothing. I’m tempted to say “Be like Jackson” and end the blog post here.
But, seriously, the key to not overthinking your writing is … stop overthinking.
I know that’s not helpful, but it is an important skill to acquire. Conversely, it’s important to purge yourself of the idea that thinking is necessary for writing. As an intuitive writer, I do everything I can to maximize intuition and minimize conscious thought. The more I think, the slower I write. I know this about myself, but there’s a pervasive idea out there that writing comes from thinking.
This gem was going around Twitter/X the last couple of days:
We won’t dive into how much of a dipshit this guy is, including a misguided impression that writers are somehow not into opportunities that allow us to pay the bills. What’s key here is that he believes you have to have an outline before writing, that you have to THINK it out. Spoiler: you do not. I am living proof of it and a total advocate for being that opportunist. Let the story come to you.
Something to keep in mind is that overthinking is a form of perfectionism, which can be paralyzing. Therefore, any techniques for killing perfectionist tendencies will help here. Basically let go of expectations and the need to make the story perfect as you’re writing.
Relax. Let it flow.
Be like Jackson.
First Cup of Coffee – February 16, 2024
//On Sheryl Sandberg’s LEAN IN and great advice for women in business that’s given me insight into my own writing career, including keeping my eye on long-term and 18-month goals, and why I don’t love the heroine’s journey.
First Cup of Coffee – February 12, 2024
//Happy (almost) Mardi Gras! I’m talking planning author finances over the longer term, offering some predictions on the rise and (inevitable, eventual) decline of Romantasy, and looking at the 10 year anniversary of THE MARK OF THE TALA.
